Get Out of Your Head, Into Your Life

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Today at a Glance:

• Get Out of Your Head

• How to Shift With the End of Daylight Saving Time

• Can These Seven Tips Help You Become a ‘Supercommunicator’?

Get Out of Your Head
Isabel Unraveled

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In our fast-paced lives, we often find ourselves trapped in our thoughts, thinking, overanalyzing, second-guessing. Yet, the essence of being fully alive lies in embracing the present moment and listening to our bodies. The body serves as a compass, guiding us through feelings and instincts, while the mind is the engine that helps us act on these insights. By fostering a harmonious relationship between the two, we can navigate life with intention and awareness. Engaging in activities that ground us—like exercise, meditation, or simply breathing—can help quiet the mind and reconnect us to our bodies, allowing us to experience life more fully. When we treat each moment as an opportunity for discovery and connection, we cultivate a deeper sense of peace and purpose.

Action!

1. Get Into Your Body. Begin building a deeper connection with your body by engaging in physical activities, such as intense exercise, yoga, or mindful walks. These activities pull you out of your mind’s constant stream of thoughts and ground you in the present.

2. Trust Your Body’s Signals. Start by taking a few deep breaths to center yourself. When you feel stuck in your mind, acknowledge it and thank your mind for its efforts. Then, consciously drop into your body and tune into any physical sensations or gut feelings. Trust these signals—they’re often guiding you in a way that logic cannot.

3. Use Your Body as Compass, Mind as The Engine. Treat your body as the guide for what to pursue and your mind as the strategist for how to accomplish it. Recognize when your body sends a strong, intuitive feeling about a decision. Use your mind to support that direction through planning, analyzing, and executing.

4. Balance Body and Mind as a Team. Remind yourself of each tool’s unique strengths, and actively choose which one to rely on at any given moment. When overthinking, return to your body through movement or deep breathing. When your body resists productivity, engage your mind to follow through.
   “When we only pay attention to the body and de-value the mind, we end up purely existing with no doing. And when we only listen to the mind and disempower the body, we end up with all doing, no being”

How to Shift With the End of Daylight Saving Time
Dr. Andrew Huberman

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As clocks "fall back" in early November, we gain an hour of sleep but lose evening light, which can disrupt our sleep and mood. To adjust smoothly, aim to go to bed and wake up at your regular times, soak up morning sunlight, and limit evening screen time. A few small adjustments can help you adapt to the new rhythm, keeping your sleep and energy levels steady.

Action!

1. Get Morning Sunlight. Expose your eyes to natural morning sunlight within 30–60 minutes of waking up (or before 11 am) to help set your internal clock. Spend 10–15 minutes outside on sunny days, or 20 minutes on cloudy days. If it's dark when you wake, use bright artificial lights until sunrise (>10,000 Lux). Avoid sunglasses, but regular glasses or contacts are fine.

2. Catch Afternoon Sunlight. Step outside in the late afternoon or around sunset to help your body prepare for nighttime and reduce sensitivity to artificial light in the evening.

3. Dim Lights in the Evening. After sunset, switch to dim, low-positioned lights like table lamps and avoid bright overhead lights to support melatonin production. Use red-tinted screens or red-lens glasses to minimize exposure to blue light, which can disrupt sleep.

4. Set Consistent Sleep and Wake Times. Stick to a regular sleep schedule, aiming to go to bed and wake up within a 45-minute window each day—even on weekends. This regularity strengthens your circadian rhythm, making it easier to feel refreshed.

5. Use Temperature, Meal Timing, and Exercise. Help your body adapt by eating meals at regular times based on the new clock. Keep your bedroom cool (~19°C/67°F), take a warm shower before bed, and maintain your usual exercise routine to promote restful sleep and support your body’s adjustment.

Can These Seven Tips Help You Become a ‘Supercommunicator’?
Stephanie Vozza

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Can small changes in our conversations transform us into “supercommunicators”? Drawing on Charles Duhigg’s insights, anyone can improve their connection skills by sharing personal experiences, asking thoughtful questions, and paying close attention to non-verbal cues. Duhigg’s research, inspired by his struggle to engage more meaningfully with family and coworkers, reveals that true conversational pros aren’t flashy; they simply make others feel heard and understood. In a world that feels increasingly isolated, the benefits of such connection aren’t just social—they’re powerful. By slowing down and tuning in, even extroverts can deepen their bonds and find surprising fulfillment in every exchange.

Action!

1. Mirror the other person’s interests: Engage by showing genuine interest in their wants and needs. Reflect their needs by sharing similar goals or experiences to create connection.

2. Use laughter to build rapport: Share lighthearted moments to break the ice. Genuine laughter over small remarks can create warmth and make others feel more at ease.

3. Leverage influence respectfully: Seek to understand and empathize, especially in negotiations. This can make others feel valued and, in turn, more willing to collaborate.

4. Tailor the conversation to the situation: Identify whether the other person wants to discuss feelings, seek advice, or simply share a moment. Adjusting your approach can create a deeper connection.

5. Prepare topics in advance: Having a mental list of talking points allows for smoother, more present conversations, especially in situations where you might feel tense.

6. Reflect their words back to them: Summarize what they’re saying to show understanding, especially in tense discussions. This can ease stress and help both sides feel heard.

7. Observe non-verbal cues: Pay attention to gestures, tone, and body language to better gauge their feelings and interest (i.e. are they interested? wanting to change topic? etc.). This will help you respond thoughtfully and build rapport naturally.

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FUN FACT

The White House Wasn’t Always Called the White House. The term “White House” was used infrequently in print during the 19th century, with most journalists and common citizens referring to it as either the “President’s House” or the “Executive Mansion.” Due to the lime-based whitewash that was applied to the exterior of the building to prevent cracks during the extreme cold of the winter months, the name “White House” stuck. The name was made official during the presidential term of Theodore Roosevelt in 1901.

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