Unlock Better Sleep: Your Ultimate Guide

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Today at a Glance:

• Every Day, Look Forward to a Really Good Sandwich

• Improve Your Sleep

• Are You Protecting Your Time?

Every Day, Look Forward to a Really Good Sandwich
Elena Spivack

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Finding joy in anticipation can make even the simplest pleasures meaningful. Asking others what they look forward to, whether it's seeing their dog or enjoying a walk, reveals the beauty in everyday moments. Studies show that anticipating good things can boost well-being and help manage stress. Whether it's a delightful sandwich, a coffee break, or a nightly tea and cookie, small planned treats can bring as much happiness as the events themselves. The key is to create moments to look forward to (every day ideally), blending the joy of planning with the thrill of anticipation—it's the essence of excitement.

Action!

• Plan a small, enjoyable activity within the next few days, like grabbing a favorite snack or taking a relaxing walk, to give yourself something to look forward to and boost your well-being. It doesn’t have to be something different every time - creating routine activities to look forward to works even better for the long-term.

Improve Your Sleep
Dr. Andrew Huberman & Dr. Matt Walker

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Discovering the secret to a restful night's sleep isn't just about how long you're in bed—it's about understanding your unique sleep needs and optimizing the quality of your rest. From setting a consistent sleep schedule to creating the ideal sleep environment, this guide provides a one-stop-shop overview of the practical strategies, discussed by Dr. Huberman and Dr. Walker, that can transform your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep. Starting with the fundamentals of “QQRT” - Quantity, Quality, Regularity & Timing, and continuing with sleep hygiene and tips for when you struggle to fall asleep.

Action!

Sleep Fundamentals: QQRT

1. Quantity: Quantity: Ensure you get 7 to 9 hours of sleep per night, allowing for deep and REM sleep cycles crucial for feeling refreshed. This varies with age and health conditions.

2. Quality: Consistent sleep without frequent awakenings indicates good sleep quality. Use sleep trackers (with caution to avoid anxiety) to monitor sleep efficiency (≥ 85% is ideal) or notice daytime sleepiness for quality clues.

3. Regularity: Stick to a consistent sleep schedule, aiming for ± 30 minutes of your bedtime and wake time each day, even on weekends. Use a "bedtime alarm" to help enforce this routine. Studies have shown that regular sleep patterns reduce all-cause mortality and may reduce the risk of cancer and cardiovascular disease more effectively than other metrics, such as sleep duration.

4. Timing: Align sleep with your chronotype as much as feasible using the Morningness-Eveningness Questionnaire.

Sleep Hygiene Basics

1. Light & Dark: Use low-positioned, warm-colored lights in the evening. Minimize screen time before bed and maximize darkness with blackout curtains or an eye mask. Get morning sunlight (10 to 15 min) or use bright lights to reset your circadian rhythm.

2. Temperature: Keep your bedroom cool (~67°F or ~19°C). Cool down with ventilation, AC, cooled mattress cover, or hands or feet out of covers. Taking a warm bath or shower (or sauna) before bedtime is a science-supported method to improve your ability to fall asleep due to the subsequent cooling down.

3. Food & Meal Timing: Experiment with the type and timing of food to reduce impact on sleep quality (generally limit food 2 hrs before bed). Limit (excessive) fluid intake before bed to prevent nighttime awakenings.

4. Caffeine: Consume caffeine early in the day and avoid it within 8-10 hours of bedtime to prevent disrupting sleep.

5. Wind-Down Routine: Engage in relaxing activities before bed and avoid stimulating ones like exercise or screens.

6. Alcohol: Alcohol is a sedative, not a sleep aid. While a 'nightcap' may help you get to sleep quickly, alcohol impairs the natural structure of sleep. Also, alcohol causes fragmented sleep.

Tips for When You’re Struggling to Fall Asleep

1. Walk It Out: If you can’t sleep after 20-25 minutes, leave your bed for a relaxing activity until sleepy. The goal is to prevent an association between a state of wakefulness and your bed.

2. Do Nothing: Avoid compensatory behaviors after one bad night's sleep (like sleeping later, going to bed early, increasing caffeine intake, or excessively long or late-day napping) to maintain your natural sleep-wake cycle.

3. Mental Walk: Visualize walking a familiar route to distract from ruminating thoughts and aid falling asleep.

4. Limit Daytime Naps: Keep naps short (≤ 20-30 minutes) and no later than the early to mid-afternoon to avoid impacting your nighttime sleep.

5. If you try these protocols and don’t notice a difference, you might be suffering from a sleep disorder. Seek professional help if you experience persistent problems, which might be due to sleep apnea or true insomnia.

Are You Protecting Your Time?
Carl Pullein

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Are you truly protecting your time? It’s a common refrain to say, "I’m too busy," or "I don’t have time," but what we’re really admitting is that we haven’t prioritized what’s being asked of us. Time isn’t something we lack; we all get the same twenty-four hours daily. Consider those who rise at 5 am for a run or dedicate an hour daily to emails—it’s about prioritizing. By organizing your day to protect time for essential tasks like communication and admin, you prevent the chaos of dealing with mounting pile of emails and overdue admin-tasks. It’s not about having more time, but about managing it wisely. So, are you ready to reclaim control of your schedule?

Action!

1. Audit Your Tasks: Start by reviewing your daily tasks and categorize them into communication-related and admin-related activities. Identify which tasks are recurring and essential.

2. Allocate Dedicated Time: Block out specific hours in your calendar each day for communication and admin tasks. Make these times non-negotiable to ensure you stay on top of emails, messages, and administrative duties.

3. Protect Your Focus: Reserve uninterrupted time, preferably in the morning when focus is optimal, for your most critical work. Block this time consistently in your calendar to safeguard it from meetings and distractions.

4. Create Recurring Events: Use your calendar to set up recurring events for these dedicated times. This prevents others from scheduling over them and reinforces your commitment to managing your tasks efficiently.

5. Say No When Necessary: Learn to politely decline tasks or meetings that don't align with your priorities during your protected times. This ensures you can focus on what truly matters without being overwhelmed.

6. Adjust and Refine: Regularly assess and adjust your schedule based on what works best for you. Flexibility is key, but consistency in protecting your time ensures productivity and reduces stress.

TOOL TIP

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FUN FACT

Mirrors facing each other don't produce infinite reflections. Each reflection will be darker than the last and eventually fade into invisibility. Mirrors absorb a fraction of the energy of the light striking them. The total number of reflections mirrors can produce? A few hundred.

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