Conquer Worry in 3 Steps

How to beat worry, think about body composition, and productive procrastination

Conquer Worry in 3 Steps

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Today at a Glance:

  • How to Beat Worry

  • Body Composition: Impact on Disease Risk and How to Assess and Improve It

  • When Procrastination is Productive

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How to Beat Worry
Lawrence Yeo

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Worry is a persistent emotion that many struggle with, often stemming from fear of the unknown. Awareness alone is insufficient to tackle it, as it tends to amplify rather than alleviate the concern. Worry feeds on uncertainty and imagining negative futures. The key to overcoming it lies in proactive steps and understanding its mechanics. Instead of passively noting your worry, you must act like a mechanic, identifying and breaking the loops that sustain it. Worry disrupts the normal flow of thoughts by focusing on potential problems, creating a feedback loop of concern and bleak thoughts. To break free, one must replace worry with constructive challenges that demand full attention, whether through mindful problem-solving or engaging in activities that require mental or physical effort. Embracing self-compassion and redirecting focus can gradually diminish the power of worry, leading to a clearer and more manageable state of mind.

Action!

  1. Identify Whether Action Is Possible: When a worry arises, ask yourself, “Is there anything I can do about it?” This is a straightforward decision: either action is possible, or it isn’t. Determine whether you need to take active steps or simply allow time to pass. Quickly assess the situation to choose the appropriate path, and remember you can revisit this question later. Be mindful of this moment of inquiry as soon as a worry appears.

  2. Apply the Three D’s If Action Is Possible: If you conclude that you can act on the worry, use the Three D’s framework: Decide – Do Nothing – Decide. First, make an intuitive decision about your course of action and mentally commit to it. Then, for the next 24 hours, take no steps to implement it. Just give yourself time to let the anxiety subside, and live as if you’ve already carried out that choice. After the 24 hours, reassess your decision. If it still feels right, proceed with your plan. If not, discard the idea as if it was never an option.

  3. Redirect Attention if Action Is Not Possible: If you find that you can’t do anything about the worry, replace it with a challenge that engages your mind or body productively. Avoid waiting passively for the situation to change, as this can lead to a cycle of unproductive worry without improving the situation. Prepare challenges in advance so you can shift your focus immediately.

Body Composition: Impact on Disease Risk and How to Assess and Improve It
Dr. Erin Donahue, Dr. Kathryn Birkenbach, Dr. Peter Attia

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Understanding your body composition goes beyond the numbers on a scale. While metrics like BMI give a general idea, they miss the mark when it comes to health risks. Body composition, focusing on fat and lean mass, offers a clearer picture. Fat isn't just fat—there's subcutaneous (under the skin) and visceral (around organs), with visceral being the real troublemaker, causing inflammation and disease. Lean mass, especially muscle, is a good thing, protecting against frailty and health issues. As we age, our body composition changes, emphasizing the need for monitoring. Various methods, from simple waist measurements to advanced DEXA scans, help assess composition. DEXA stands out as a safe, cost-effective option, providing detailed insights. But knowing your composition is just the beginning; taking action through diet, exercise, or other interventions is key to improving health and longevity.

Action!

Given the two criteria of nourishment (fat mass) and muscle, ideal interventions can be determined by placing yourself into one of four categories within a two-by-two matrix:

  1. Under Muscled and Overnourished: Cut back on calories while ensuring you get enough protein for muscle growth. Prioritize resistance exercise to build muscle and include cardiovascular exercise.

  2. Adequately Muscled and Overnourished: Reduce overall calorie intake, especially if visceral fat is a concern. Maintain protein intake to support muscle, adjusting calories primarily for aesthetics or orthopedic reasons. Keep up weightlifting while increasing cardio.

  3. Under Muscled and Adequately Nourished: Focus on boosting protein intake. If you're undernourished, increase both protein and overall calorie intake. Increase weightlifting and consider reducing excessive cardio.

  4. Adequately Muscled and Adequately Nourished: Stay consistent and aim for further progress in your exercise and nutrition routine, refining your goals.

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In the midst of our busy lives, we often juggle multiple goals and responsibilities, leading to the misconception that procrastination reflects a lack of commitment. However, in the pursuit of ambitious aspirations alongside essential maintenance tasks, it's vital to discern between the two. While maintenance activities keep our lives running smoothly, aspirational goals drive us towards growth and achievement. Understanding this balance allows us to prioritize effectively and allocate our time and energy accordingly. So, don't beat yourself up for procrastinating on low-priority goals; it's about making intentional choices and optimizing progress towards what truly matters.

Action!

  1. List all your maintenance activities to understand what keeps your life on track.

  2. Prioritize your aspirational goals by evaluating their importance individually. Avoid the trap of assuming you have time for everything; instead, determine what matters most to you.

  3. Understand that priorities can shift over time. It's okay to focus on one goal at a time, such as programming this month and fitness the next, to avoid spreading yourself too thin and feeling overwhelmed.

  4. After completing this exercise, you'll have a clearer idea of what you can realistically achieve. Adjust your ambitions accordingly based on the time available after completing your maintenance tasks. Remember that limited time may require scaling back on certain goals or reevaluating your maintenance activities to ensure realistic progress.

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