Life Isn’t Unfair; It’s Your Perspective.

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Today at a Glance:

• The Problem Isn’t That Life is Unfair – It’s Your Broken Idea of Fairness

• With Exercise, Results Matter More Than “Time Served”

• The Most Important Skill of the Future is Being ‘Indistractable’

The Problem Isn’t That Life is Unfair – It’s Your Broken Idea of Fairness
Oliver Emberton

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Life isn't a playground with equal swings and slides; it's a dynamic arena where competition is the norm, and success often hinges on impact, not just intent. The harsh truth? Society doesn't tally good intentions; it measures tangible contributions. Your crush not reciprocating feelings, a promotion snatched by another, or even a failed exam—it's not the universe conspiring against you but a reminder that the world is complex and doesn’t comply with your ideas of right and wrong. In a world where fairness is a comforting illusion, embracing the gritty reality might just be your ticket to unlocking boundless potential. So, ready to play by the real rules?

Action!

1. Recognize life as a competition where opportunities are battled for, whether it's securing a job or winning someone's affection. Embrace the competitive nature of life and be prepared to strive for what you want.

2. Shift your focus from intentions to actions, understanding that societal judgment is based on tangible contributions rather than personal beliefs. Accept that your impact on others determines your worth (in the eyes of others), regardless of your internal sense of morality or virtue.

3. Reevaluate your notion of fairness, realizing that it often reflects self-interest rather than universal principles. Understand that life's outcomes are not always just or predictable, and instead of lamenting perceived injustices, focus on adapting and thriving within the existing framework.

With Exercise, Results Matter More Than “Time Served”
Dr. Kathryn Birkenbach & Dr. Peter Attia

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Exercise duration shouldn't be the sole focus; what truly matters are the outcomes it brings. Output metrics like VO2 max and muscle strength are key indicators of health and longevity, while arbitrary exercise durations don’t mean much in absence of quality. While some tout the magic of 150-minutes of exercise per week, the truth lies in quality over quantity. Whether it's intense cardio or focused strength training, the effectiveness of your regimen depends on its specificity and intensity. So, next time you wonder how much exercise is enough, remember: it's not about the time served, but the results earned.

Action!

• Focus on quality over quantity in your exercise routine. Instead of fixating on how much time you spend working out, prioritize achieving meaningful results like improving your VO2 max and muscle strength. Tailor your workouts to be focused and specific or intense, ensuring you're getting the most out of each session. By optimizing your training for these measurable outcomes rather than arbitrary time goals, you'll set yourself up for a healthier and longer life.

The Most Important Skill of the Future is Being ‘Indistractable’
Nir Eyal

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In a world where distractions lurk at every corner, mastering the art of being 'indistractable' is the ultimate superpower. From battling work emails during precious family moments to succumbing to the allure of constant notifications, distractions threaten to steal our focus and time. But by understanding the difference between traction and distraction, and learning to manage both internal and external triggers, we can reclaim control over our attention and lives. Becoming indistractable isn't just about personal productivity; it's about shaping the future and inspiring others to do the same, creating a world where intentionality reigns supreme.

Action!

Step 1: Master Internal Triggers

1. Identify the underlying feeling or thought: Recognize the internal trigger prompting distraction, such as anxiety or restlessness.

2. Document it: Keep a log of internal triggers, noting the feeling, time, and activity associated with them to understand patterns.

3. Investigate the sensation: Get curious about the feelings preceding distraction, observe them without following impulses, and let go.

Step 2: Make Time for Traction

1. Define your values: Determine the core values guiding your life, such as family, health, or personal growth.

2. Translate values into time: Allocate dedicated time in your schedule for activities aligned with your values instead of just talking about them.

3. Schedule with timeboxing: Use timeboxing to allocate specific time slots for tasks and activities, ensuring alignment with your priorities.

Step 3: Hack Back External Triggers

1. Assess external triggers: Evaluate if external prompts lead to productive actions or distractions.

2. Take control of smartphone use (4R): Remove unnecessary apps, Replace app use on your phone to desktops, Rearrange apps that trigger mindless checking away from your home screen, and Reclaim attention by adjusting your settings to only receive truly important notifications.

3. Manage triggers in various environments: Apply strategies to handle distractions, whether they originate from digital devices or interruptions in physical spaces.

Step 4: Prevent Distraction With Pacts

1. Effort pacts: Increase the effort required for distractions, utilizing apps or strategies that impose barriers to unwanted behaviors.

2. Price pacts: Attach monetary consequences to distractions, rewarding adherence to planned behaviors and penalizing deviation.

3. Identity pacts: Adopt a new self-image as "indistractable," empowering oneself to make decisions aligned with this identity and resist distractions effectively.

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