Escape the Doom Spiral: Tips to Stop Catastrophizing!

How to stop catastrophizing, beat social jetlag, and protect your time

Escape the Doom Spiral: Tips to Stop Catastrophizing!

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Today at a Glance:

  • Are You Catastrophizing? Here’s How to Stop Assuming The Worst.

  • Social Jetlag Impairs Exercise Adaptations and Promotes Metabolic Dysfunction

  • Timeshielding: How to Do the Things you Actually Want to Do

“If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster.”

Stephen Covey

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Do you ever catch yourself spiraling into catastrophic thoughts? Whether it's the constant stream of bleak news or everyday stressors, catastrophizing can turn minor setbacks into major crises. From failed tests leading to a future of joblessness to a silent group chat signaling universal dislike, our minds have a knack for conjuring worst-case scenarios. But here's the thing: catastrophizing rarely reflects reality. Sure, it's a natural impulse to prepare for the worst, but dwelling on catastrophic outcomes only fuels anxiety, prolongs physical discomfort, and hampers problem-solving skills. According to Dr. Scott Glassman, this mindset often stems from deep-seated concerns about safety or past traumas. So how do we break free from this doom spiral? By grounding ourselves in the present reality and reframing our perspective. By focusing on what's real rather than the stories we tell ourselves, we can mitigate the anxiety that comes with catastrophizing. Here are some therapist-approved tactics to help you break free from the cycle of catastrophic thinking.

Action!

  1. Catch yourself in the act: Recognize when catastrophic thoughts arise, acknowledging them as thoughts rather than predictions of the future, and remind yourself of past instances where similar thoughts didn't align with reality.

  2. Ask yourself pointed questions: Challenge catastrophic scenarios by questioning the worst possible outcomes and evaluating your ability to overcome them, often realizing that your anxiety magnifies the perceived threats.

  3. Follow the negative thoughts to see where they lead: Counter catastrophic thinking by either substituting negative thoughts with positive ones or tracing them to their absurd conclusions, realizing they're possibilities, not probabilities.

  4. Remind yourself that you are not your thoughts: Create a separation from anxious thoughts by externalizing them, using phrases like "I am having the thought that …" rather than internalizing them as personal attributes.

  5. Pay attention when things go well: Balance your focus on negative events by actively acknowledging and documenting when things turn out positively, while also noting instances where catastrophic predictions prove false, challenging underlying beliefs of inability to cope.

  6. Focus on what you can control: Redirect your focus from worrying about the future to empowering yourself with positive coping strategies for potential catastrophes, acknowledging your limitations but emphasizing your ability to respond effectively.

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Beware the social jetlag trap! Imagine your body as a finely tuned orchestra, following a rhythm called the circadian clock, orchestrating everything from hormones to metabolism. Yet, when we party with our sleep schedule, especially on weekends, we throw this harmony off-key, welcoming a host of health issues. A recent study with mice mimicked this chaos by advancing their weekend clocks by 4 hours, leading to weight gain and glucose troubles. Even exercise, our trusty health ally, couldn’t fully rescue them. Why does this matter? Because our bodies, like clockwork, anticipate and prepare for daily stresses. But when our internal clocks clash with our weekend warrior ways, we pay the price with metabolic mayhem. It’s not just about when you sleep, but also when you eat and move. Social jetlag, that Monday morning grogginess from weekend antics, is more than a nuisance—it’s a health risk.

Action!

  1. Limit Social Jetlag: Aim to keep your sleep schedule consistent, even on weekends. Try not to shift your sleep midpoint by more than 2 hours from your weekday routine.

  2. Prioritize Exercise: Make physical activity a regular part of your routine, especially if you're prone to social jetlag. Aim for consistency in your exercise schedule, ideally at the same time each day.

  3. Maintain Weekday Stability: Stick to a consistent sleep-wake schedule during the week. Avoid drastic shifts in your bedtime and wake time, aiming for no more than a 90-minute difference.

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In a world where time is finite, mastering your schedule is key. But it's not just about squeezing tasks into every minute; it's about prioritizing what's important to you. Enter timeshielding, a game-changer in navigating the complexities of our daily lives. Unlike rigid timeboxing, timeshielding offers a fluid approach, allowing you to carve out blocks of time without being tethered to a specific to-do list. Whether it's fostering creativity, maintaining focus, or honoring your body's natural rhythm, timeshielding empowers you to safeguard your time for what truly matters. Dive into your curiosity, protect your attention from distractions, and embrace well-deserved breaks—all while maximizing productivity and preserving your mental well-being. So, are you ready to reclaim your time and conquer your goals with clarity and purpose?

Action!

  1. Prioritize what matters by scheduling time for key goals. Begin each week by allocating time for essential tasks such as creative pursuits, advancing a personal project, or maintaining your health. Ensure these activities are protected in your schedule, adjusting as needed to accommodate overlapping commitments.

  2. Embrace saying "no" or postponing non-urgent tasks. If a request doesn't align with your current priorities or energy, politely decline or suggest revisiting the discussion in a few weeks. Often, people won't follow up, freeing up time for more meaningful endeavors.

  3. Focus on managing your energy over micromanaging your time. Keep your schedule flexible to adapt to fluctuating energy levels. Utilize bursts of energy for creative projects and reserve low-energy periods for less demanding tasks, fostering a fluid approach to productivity.

  4. Things to consider:

    1. Dedicate calendar time to exploring interests and letting your mind wander, free from outcome pressures.

    2. Avoid multitasking; concentrate on one task at a time, eliminating distractions like phones and notifications.

    3. Schedule moments to recharge, whether it's alone time, a walk, or meditation.

    4. Schedule tasks during your hours of peak energy based on whether you're an early bird or a night owl.

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