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Today at a Glance:

• The Psychological Immune System: Four Ways to Bolster Yours

• Immune Boosts or Busts? From IV Drips and Detoxes to Superfoods

• Making My Calendar Work for Me

The Psychological Immune System: Four Ways to Bolster Yours
Ammar Kalia

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Just as your body has defenses against illness, your mind possesses a remarkable ability to turn adversity into opportunity. Research reveals that we often underestimate our resilience and overestimate the duration of negative emotions. By learning to activate your psychological immune system, you can navigate life's challenges with confidence, find silver linings in tough situations, and take risks more comfortably. This incredible mental buffer can't prevent bad things from happening, but it can empower you to regain control of your brain and monitor your responses, ultimately leading to a more resilient and fulfilling life. Here are four ways to bolster your psychological immunity and prepare for whatever life throws your way.

Action!

1. Shift from Negative to Neutral: Change your inner narrative by finding a neutral perspective on challenging situations. For instance, instead of jumping from negativity to positive self-talk, aim for a neutral zone where you can feel okay for the moment. Use mantras or visual cues like sticky notes with phrases like "It is what it is" to stay grounded. Building a list of "safety signals" that reassure you can also help.

2. Embrace the Present Moment: Practice mindfulness through techniques like guided meditation to stay grounded in the here and now. Focus on small, positive aspects of life, whether it's a warm hug or a sip of coffee. Establishing healthy sleep patterns and daily routines can further support your psychological immune system by breaking negative prediction cycles.

3. Discover Your Meaning: Set meaningful goals aligned with your values to provide purpose in challenging times. By making decisions based on your values rather than short-term comfort, you'll find greater fulfillment and resilience. Reappraise situations by discussing them with others and considering their long-term significance.

4. Practice Acceptance: In moments of trauma or prolonged distress, practice self-compassion and acknowledge your emotions without judgment. Don't force positivity; allow natural emotions to surface. Avoid falling into the trap of toxic positivity, which suppresses genuine feelings. If needed, seek professional help like therapy or medication to support your psychological immune system. Remember, coping is the ultimate goal, and giving yourself the best chance possible is essential.

Immune Boosts or Busts? From IV Drips and Detoxes to Superfoods
Dr. Robert H. Shmerling

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In the quest for a stronger immune system, the market is flooded with enticing promises of supercharged immunity through IV drips, supplements, detoxes, and superfoods. However, the truth is that most of these heavily marketed products lack FDA endorsement and often fall short of delivering on their immune-boosting claims. Unless you have a specific nutrient deficiency, these products are unlikely to meaningfully enhance your immune function. Instead, focus on maintaining a well-rounded diet and overall healthy lifestyle, as there's no magic bullet for immune strength. While we may hope for future breakthroughs, for now, the best bet is to rely on tried-and-true health practices rather than relying on quick-fix solutions.

Action!

• Avoid relying on superfoods, detoxes, or similar approaches to boost your immune system and maintain good health. Instead, consider the following actions:

  1. Eat well and follow a heart-healthy diet.

  2. Exercise regularly and maintain a healthy weight.

  3. Don't smoke or vape.

  4. If you drink alcoholic beverages, drink only in moderation.

  5. Get plenty of sleep.

  6. Minimize stress.

  7. Get regular medical care, including routine vaccinations.

  8. Take measures to prevent infection such as frequent hand washing, avoiding people who might have a contagious illness, and wearing a mask when it's recommended.

Making My Calendar Work for Me
Ami Vora

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In the world of management, the illusion of having more time when delegating tasks to your team quickly fades. The demands of recruiting, constant 1:1 meetings, team troubleshooting, and performance reviews can overwhelm even the most diligent leaders. Falling into a reactive pattern, saying yes to every meeting and request, can leave you without time for your own goals. To combat this, discipline your calendar and aim to direct 80% of incoming requests towards effective solutions, saving precious time and energy. Ultimately, this discipline ensures focused progress towards building better products, the key to serving your audience effectively.

Action!

1. Prioritize and Calendar Alignment: Clearly define your priorities and match your calendar accordingly. Set aside specific time blocks for each goal, including solo thinking time, and delegate or decline tasks that don't fit.

2. Energy-Matched Scheduling: Schedule tasks according to your energy levels. Allocate "thinking time" during your most productive hours and incorporate short breaks, like 5-minute intervals between back-to-back meetings.

3. Structured Response to Repeated Requests: When faced with the same type of request three or more times, establish a structured approach. Create processes, such as product review procedures or regular coffee chats for common inquiries.

4. Designated Spaces with Purpose: Create dedicated spaces for specific purposes and label them clearly. For instance, utilize asynchronous communication channels for daily queries with direct reports and reserve specific 1:1 meetings for coaching or career discussions.

5. Transparent Priority Sharing: Share your priorities with your team weekly. Publish your weekly goals and assess the previous week's achievements to provide clarity to your team and encourage them to manage their own priorities effectively.

6. Focused Time Techniques: Implement time management techniques like the Pomodoro method to stay focused, even in short time frames. Break your work into manageable intervals, using brief breaks to recharge between tasks.

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FUN FACT

Parents usually hold babies with the child’s head on the left, because both parent and child’s left eyes are controlled by the right hemisphere of the brain, which governs feelings of empathy and connection. This is true for parents from every culture, and even true of children when they hold dolls.

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