Eyes on Tomorrow, Not Yesterday

Why not to look back, the effectiveness of 1-1 learning, and protecting against cognitive decline

Eyes on Tomorrow, Not Yesterday

Welcome to Effective Habits, a weekly newsletter where I share evidence-based strategies and tools to help you live a happy, healthy, and productive life.

Today at a Glance:

  • Don’t Look Back

  • Protecting Against Cognitive Decline

  • The Unreasonable Effectiveness of 1-1 Learning

“The most invisible form of wasted time is doing a good job on an unimportant task.”

James Clear

Don’t Look Back
Arnold Schwarzenegger

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Discovering a trove of historical complaints about "the good old days," spanning over 130 years, reveals a timeless pattern: people have always romanticized the past. Why? Lacking a clear future vision makes it tempting to idealize the past, finding comfort in its familiarity. Instead of dwelling on the past, cultivate a personal vision that infuses purpose, excitement, and meaning into your life. A vision, whether excelling in a profession, being a devoted family member, or maintaining fitness, becomes a driving force that outshines nostalgia and propels individuals forward. So, take a moment today to define your vision and visualize your dreams – because your future is far brighter than any bygone era.

Action!

  1. Find yourself dwelling on the past a little too much? It’s time to take a few minutes today to reflect on and define your personal vision for the future.

  2. Consider what excites you, what goals you want to achieve, and how you want to contribute to your profession, family, or personal well-being.

  3. Visualize yourself achieving your dreams, playing this mental movie in your head regularly.

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Discovering how to safeguard your brain from cognitive decline is crucial, even though there's no surefire way to cure dementia yet. Scientists have pinpointed several factors that could potentially shield you from cognitive decline, reminding us that each of us holds the power to take action and preserve our mental sharpness as we age.

Action!

  1. Stay Active: Engage in regular exercise to not only boost your overall health but also potentially ward off cognitive decline and dementia.

  2. Embrace a Mediterranean Diet: Prioritize a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats like olive oil. This eating pattern has been linked to better heart health, reduced cancer risk, and reduced cognitive decline.

  3. Mindful Drinking: Limit alcohol intake to one drink per day to maintain brain health. Excessive alcohol consumption can increase Alzheimer's risk.

  4. Prioritize Sleep: Aim for consistent, quality sleep. It's vital for brain function and memory consolidation. Sleeping less than 7-8 hours a night can impact your mental sharpness.

  5. Keep Mentally Active: Engage in mentally stimulating activities like reading, puzzles, and discussions. The more you challenge your brain, the lower your risk of mild cognitive impairment and Alzheimer's.

  6. Nurture Social Connections: Socialize regularly, as strong social bonds are as important as exercise and a good diet. They protect memory, fight depression, and reinforce cognitive abilities.

Lights, Camera, ...
Ever wondered why universities cost a fortune? It's more than just learning; it's about status, community, and convenience. But if you're fixated on learning, here's the scoop: 1-1 tutoring can catapult your learning by a staggering 98%. The author experienced this firsthand when he embarked on a journey to become a novelist. Collaborating with the author of a favorite book, he achieved more in those personalized sessions than in workshops, classes, or independent study combined. Whether it is for learning a new field, building a skill, or refining a piece of work, the key lies in the tailored guidance and targeted problem-solving that comes with individualized attention. Unlike a conventional classroom, 1-on-1 tutoring demands your active engagement and initiative, from structuring the sessions to practicing between them. Remarkably, the cost of 1-on-1 learning often surprises many, offering profound growth and accelerated learning without the hefty price tag.

Action!

  1. Find a Suitable Tutor: Seek individuals in a balanced career phase—knowledgeable but not too advanced. For academic topics, target those pursuing a master's or PhD; for arts, consider recent MFA grads or emerging successful creators. Connect with creators of works you admire, and explore academia for potential tutors.

  2. Be Prepared to Lead Your Learning: Understand that 1-on-1 tutoring requires active participation. Demonstrate your commitment by having basic knowledge and clear learning goals. Take charge of the learning path and bring background knowledge to guide your tutor. Preparing beforehand enhances the experience and maximizes outcomes.

  3. Negotiate Fair Pricing: Instead of traditional institutions, consider individuals who teach to support themselves. Directly approach potential tutors and agree on reasonable compensation—often around $50-$100 per hour—bridging the gap between institutional rates and affordability.

  4. Structure Sessions Effectively: Plan sessions to optimize learning. For instance, meet every two weeks to allow for revisions and feedback implementation. Commit to multi-month periods for continuity and clarity. Focus on learning one skill at a time to avoid overwhelm and ensure a sense of progress.

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